Un papa pas content du tout....

Bon ici le gars aurait pris un 12 mais bon...assez gratifiant comme parent de voir ca......j'aimerais donc voir la réaction de sa fille...


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yavait lair a en avoir assé de( face de bouc )

des parasites comme ça, y en a à plein
le pire, c'est que ça commence à entrer sur le marché du travail

HA HA HA... ca donne des idées! J'espère parcontre ne jamais avoir a me rendre là avec les 3 miennes!

Bravo J'adore

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I've made it a point of not responding to news or media thus far, but I'm going to reply to a few specific issues mentioned from the news anchors:

First, let me say Thanks for not making me out as a TOTAL villain, though you cut-together enough footage sequences to make it seem that way in segments...


It was an emotional response: Yes ma’am it was an emotional response. I raised my children to never use that kind of language, especially in a public place like that. There were so many vulgarities… I don’t even know where to start. She was mad and I get that, but there are way to talk about things without resorting to that kind of language.

Secondly, and I’ve said this on Facebook as well, but I’m sure it will get lost in the flotsam of comments out there; I shouldn’t have said the word “ass.” I’ll agree that wasn’t a good example of me as a father. I had been reading that post again and again for about an hour, sometimes in tears, other times so mad my hands were shaking and I was trying very hard to be civil in my message. I slipped in that and said a word I shouldn’t have. I deserve a little backlash for that, no doubt.

In response to Dr Fletcher’s comments:
Fifteen year olds don’t the social maturity to know what the consequence might be? I learned at about age 3 what good words were.. and what bad word were. I learned what I should say, and what I shouldn’t say. Those lessons were reinforced throughout my life as a pre-teen, teenager, and later into adulthood. I think it’s safe to assume we’ve attempted to instill in her the values that should make it obvious to ANY 15-year old that neither the content, nor its publication to the world at large was acceptable for any child, or even any adult for that matter.

The punishment wasn’t natural or logical?
She’s known the rules for Facebook ever since she was allowed to have an account. She’s broken them from time to time, sometimes by accident, sometimes as a way of stretching her boundaries to see just how firm the boundaries were. This was neither. Her post was WAY over the top.

The Dr mentioned she “doesn’t really know what my daughter will learn from this consequence.” I hoped that would be self-explanatory, but I guess you can’t see that without knowing the rest of the story. The last time she did something completely inappropriate, she was grounded from the Internet for three months. The very day she got it back we had a nice long amicable talk about what was and was not acceptable and that I wanted her to have a chance to prove she was responsible enough to utilize the internet unsupervised… by exercising her renewed freedom in a responsible way. The point of this being that proving you can be trusted to be responsible in one venue can lead to increased freedoms in other venues. I ended that conversation with a warning. I told her if no uncertain terms that we had already taken it away from her once. The next time, there wouldn’t be the same chance. If it happened again, “I’ll put a bullet through it.”

The "This one's from your mom" comment:
Before I made the video this week, I called my wife at her office, mostly in tears. The first words out of my mouth were “Please convince me not to put a bullet through Hannah’s laptop.” She knew something was wrong and asked me to be sensible and tell her what happened. Instead I began reading her the Facebook post our daughter made. She let me get to the end of the post, said “I’m sorry honey” and then said “put one in it for me while you’re at it”… so I did.

Contradiction in Terms?
No I don’t think so. Yes I told my daughter not to air that kind of material on Facebook because it was hurtful to other people. It embarrassed them. It caused them to feel humiliated, especially our very very good friend, who is NOT a cleaning lady by any stretch of the imagination!

Instead, I simply turned the tables and let her be on the receiving end of something and see how it made her feel. You mentioned not embellishing it, not sensationalizing it. I didn’t. I read exactly what she put out there for the world to see, in her own words. Then I added a few of my own words to it.

And then, yes, I shot it full of holes. Would I have received the same viral attention if I’d used it as a dog toy, hit it with a hammer, drove over it with the truck, or simply thrown it away? I’m not sure. But the point is that her parents told her “If it happens again, I’ll put a bullet through it.”
So, rather than let her push that particular boundary any further, I did absolutely no more and no less than I promised I’d do. Do I regret doing it? No. Do I regret keeping it on Facebook long enough to cause this stir? Yes. However at this time I feel that if I took the post or the video down, I'd just make it appear that we're running in shame from it, and we're not.

Truthfully though the social attention has helped her and I both deal with it. We had our discussion about it after she returned home from school. We set the ground rules for her punishment, and then I let her read some of the comments on Facebook with me at my computer. At first it was upsetting. Then as we read it became less so, eventually funny to both of us. At the end, she was amazed that other people had such amazingly strong reactions. Some said she’d grow up to be a stripper. Others that she’d get pregnant and become drug addicted because of the emotional damage. She actually asked me to go on Facebook and ask if there was anything else the victim of a laptop-homicide could do besides stripping because all the posts seem to mention that particular job and she wasn’t so keen on that one.

So in the end, she’s fine. My Facebook wall will never be the same again, and we’ll be OK as a family and she’ll grow up happy, healthy, and have everything she needs, but not everything she wants. And I absolutely guarantee she’ll never doubt my resolve to follow-through on a consequence again.

Tout est bien qui finit bien...

meme chose au québec le gars est prison pis la dpj ammene la fille mais bref je suis d'accord avec le pere les jeune d'aujourd'hui ce crois roi!

C'est pas toujours drôle la vie.

Johnybgood a écrit:

meme chose au québec le gars est prison pis la dpj ammene la fille mais bref je suis d'accord avec le pere les jeune d'aujourd'hui ce crois roi!

Oui Monsieur, et ici on ressortirait les arguments du registre pour dire que la sécurité est compromise.

moi je trouve sa poche....y aurais du le destroyer comme du monde son ordi...moi je l aurais fait comme au pigeon..tu le lance dans les air pi tu le btire au 12 pour qu il retompe en piece

EL WILL a écrit:

moi je trouve sa poche....y aurais du le destroyer comme du monde son ordi...moi je l aurais fait comme au pigeon..tu le lance dans les air pi tu le btire au 12 pour qu il retompe en piece

si tu ecoutes comme il faut il a utiliser une sorte de munition particuliere....on voit just les ptits trou mais pas sur qui restait grand chose en dedans...

Bah, un 12 puis de la munition ordinaire...Le travail aurait été fait autant.

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Bah, un 12 puis de la munition ordinaire...Le travail aurait été fait autant.

Ouaip! une slave de Buck000 tirées de près et Abracadabra....Des dizaines de petits de morceaux d'ordi

Dommage qu'au Quebekistan il n'y ait pas de "Bootcamp" comme aux states, et ce à cause de la charte des droits et libertés, car un bon nombre de petits rois s'y retrouveraient sûrement.
Je pense que sa fille y aurait mérité un séjour. En revenant elle aurait apprécié faire du ménage, et se serait rendue compte comment bien elle est chez elle.
J'aime bien qu'il ait fait ce qu'il avait promis de faire... put a bullet trough it!

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Bah, un 12 puis de la munition ordinaire...Le travail aurait été fait autant.

Ouaip! une slave de Buck000 tirées de près et Abracadabra....Des dizaines de petits de morceaux d'ordi

Si le laptop a un frame en métal, ça explosera presque pas...

Source: C'est ben le fun de tirer au 00 sur ton vieux laptop qui marche pu héhé

C'est une bonne thérapie que de tirer sur son ordi quand il t'a fait ch%&er en gelant régulièrement...Ça fait du bien lol

Jamais si bien dit ,la satisfaction de se satisfaire.

C'est drôle de même quand on regarde le vidéo, mais en même temps c'est triste. Un homme, père de famille devrait se comporter en homme, garder ses chicanes en privé au lieu d'emmener sa sur internet pis dialoguer un peu plus avec sa fille.

Une petite séance ou deux de contrôlle de la colère lui ferait du bien.

P.S. j'ai deux gars à la maison 18 et 21 ans, j'ai passé par toute sortes de frustration mais jamais usé de violence comme lui pour passer mes messages.

dero338 a écrit:

des parasites comme ça, y en a à plein
le pire, c'est que ça commence à entrer sur le marché du travail

Ouaip, c'est déjà chose faite : tu entre dans le bureau, elles font du textos... J'suis quand même pas pour commencer à confisquer les téléphones à l'entrée du bureau ...



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